This one is a particularly hard one for me to write. I'll start with the short version. I started life out as very much a "boys, girl".
So this post is a long time coming. I'm not sure I wanted to even write this but it's been 10 years of agony and considering I'm well into my Saturn Return, I figured there's no better time than the present. Karmic retributions aside, my essay comes with some updates.